CHARACTERISTICS OF A NARCISSIST
In my last post, we identified the common traits found in narcissists – exaggerated self-importance and lack of empathy for the feelings of others. We’ve also pointed out how much the narcissist needs constant admiration, feels entitled, and how normal rules of human interaction don’t apply to them. They have the right to make up their own rules, which is a demonic characteristic. Because of this, handling the narcissist in your life can seem overwhelming. The narcissist exploits others for personal gain and feels no guilt. That’s why there is sometimes a connection between the spirit of Jezebel and narcissism. Like Jezebel, the narcissist uses charm and seduction to influence others for human subjugation.
The narcissist acts at the expense of other people without a single bone of humility. They expect others to accept their grandiose ideas. If you don’t go along with them, look out! Their retribution can be deadly. They look for people they can use for their own ego extension without giving those they take from anything in return that has relationship value. I have just described the demonized mind. But unlike the narcissist who often looks charming, the devil and demons are experts at camouflage and seducing their victims.
HOW TO HANDLE A NARCISSIST
Being with a narcissist, especially if they have demons, is a challenge. By nature manipulative, and if narcissists are demonized, that manipulation is aided by supernatural intelligence. Here are some tips to ditch the narcissist in your life.
- Set well-defined boundaries. First Samuel 16:23 tells us that rebellion and witchcraft go hand in hand. The narcissist you’re in relationship with, whether it’s a family member, romantic interest, or spouse, will always try to cross boundaries. Begin by breaking soul ties with anyone who is narcissistic. Be firm and unyielding. The nature of demons and narcissism is to test boundaries to see whether you will give in. This is exactly what happened in the garden of Eden when the ultimate narcissist, the serpent, questioned what God had said and tempted Eve to violate the boundary of eating forbidden fruit.
- Don’t try to win arguments with a narcissist, especially if demons accentuate their behavior. In fact, narcissists love conflict and often try to start arguments as a means of getting control. Demons do the same. They create strife and discord to take advantage. They put forth plausible arguments for disobedience to God. The true narcissist is out to manipulate and argue. Don’t take the bait. Do what Jesus did when the devil tempted him. He simply stood on the word of God.
- Limit your vulnerability. Stand on the word of God and don’t be drawn into contentious arguments Avoid the power struggles that narcissists and demon possessed people thrive on. State your biblical principles clearly and don’t get into a battle of the wills. Don’t try to win. Leave the victory to the Lord. Avoid provocation and being drawn into disputes that only feed the emotions of the narcissist and have no reasonable possibility of resolution. When necessary, walk away from the contentiousness of the narcissist. It’s the same when dealing with someone whose emotions are manipulated by demons.
Handling the narcissist in your life is possible. Know when to confront such evil powers and know when to walk away.
